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Where to turn, and when.

Crisis lines first, because that is what people need fastest. Then national organisations, condition-specific support, and directories for finding a therapist who is not me — because sometimes that is the right answer.

If you are in immediate danger

Call 911 or go to your nearest emergency department. If you are thinking about ending your life, please tell someone right now — a crisis counsellor, a friend, a family member, anyone. You do not have to explain it well.

This website cannot respond to emergencies. Email and contact forms are not monitored around the clock.

Twenty-four hours a day

Crisis lines.

All of these are free, confidential to the extent the law allows, and staffed by trained people who have heard it before.

Call or text

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

For thoughts of suicide, emotional distress, or worry about someone else. Call or text 988. Available in English and Spanish, 24/7.

988lifeline.org

Text

Crisis Text Line

Text HOME to 741741 to reach a trained volunteer counsellor. Good if speaking on the phone feels impossible.

crisistextline.org

Call

Veterans Crisis Line

Dial 988 then press 1, or text 838255. For veterans, service members and their families — no VA enrolment needed.

veteranscrisisline.net

Call, text or chat

The Trevor Project

Crisis support for LGBTQ+ young people, 24/7. Call 1-866-488-7386 or text START to 678-678.

thetrevorproject.org

Call or chat

National Domestic Violence Hotline

Call 1-800-799-7233 or text START to 88788. Safety planning, advocacy and local referrals.

thehotline.org

Call or chat

RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline

Call 1-800-656-4673 for confidential support and connection to local services, 24/7.

rainn.org

Call

SAMHSA National Helpline

1-800-662-4357. Free, confidential treatment referral and information for mental health and substance use — 24/7, 365 days a year.

samhsa.gov

Call or text

Postpartum Support International

Call or text 1-800-944-4773. For perinatal mood and anxiety difficulties — pregnancy, postpartum, and loss.

postpartum.net

Information

NAMI HelpLine

1-800-950-6264, weekdays. Not a crisis line — an information and navigation service, and an unusually good one.

nami.org

Reliable information

National organisations worth trusting.

The internet has a great deal of mental-health content and much of it is selling something. These are not.

National Institute of Mental Health

The US government’s research institute. Plain-language explanations of every major condition, plus the actual statistics rather than the ones in headlines.

nimh.nih.gov

American Psychological Association

The professional body for psychologists in the United States. Public-facing articles on therapy, stress, parenting and relationships, written by practitioners.

apa.org

Mental Health America

Community-focused, with free screening tools and a large library of practical guidance for people and for the families around them.

mhanational.org

Anxiety & Depression Association of America

Specialist, evidence-focused material on anxiety disorders, OCD, PTSD and depression, plus free peer support communities.

adaa.org

Depression and Bipolar Support Alliance

Peer-led support groups, online and in person, for mood disorders. Peer support is a genuine complement to therapy, not a substitute for it.

dbsalliance.org

RESOLVE: National Infertility Association

Support groups, advocacy and clear information for anyone navigating infertility, treatment decisions or family building.

resolve.org

American Society for Reproductive Medicine

The professional body for reproductive medicine, with patient-facing fact sheets that are rigorous and refreshingly free of marketing.

asrm.org

Association for Behavioral & Cognitive Therapies

The home of CBT research and practice in the US, with excellent free fact sheets on what the evidence actually says.

abct.org

Florida Psychological Association

The state association for Florida psychologists — useful for finding local practitioners and for understanding your rights as a patient here.

flapsych.com

Finding someone

How to find a therapist who fits — including if it is not me.

A good fit matters more than a fancy list of credentials. If I am not right for you, these are the places I would look.

Five questions to ask on a first call

  1. What is your experience with what I am bringing? Specific experience matters more than general seniority.
  2. How do you actually work? A clinician should be able to describe their approach in plain English in under a minute.
  3. What would the first few sessions look like? You are listening for a structure, not a script.
  4. How will we know if this is working? Good therapy has a direction and a way of checking it.
  5. What are the fees, and what happens if I cancel? Never awkward. Always worth asking before the first session, not after.

And afterwards, ask yourself the sixth question: did I feel slightly more able to be honest by the end of the call than at the start? That instinct is worth trusting.

A note on links

Every external link on this page was checked when the site was built. Websites move; if you find one that no longer works, please email DrDonnaDuffin@gmail.com and it will be corrected. Listing an organisation is not an endorsement of everything it publishes.

In crisis right now? Call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 24/7), text HOME to 741741, or call 911. This website is not a substitute for emergency care. See all crisis resources →